Kids' Table at a Wedding: Should You Have One?

If children are on your guest list, you have a choice: a dedicated kids' table, or seat them with their families. Both work — here is how to decide and make it a success.

When a kids' table works

A kids' table is great when you have several children of roughly primary-school age who know each other. They have their own fun, parents get a relaxed dinner nearby, and the energy stays contained. Keep it in sight of the parents' tables, not across the room.

When to seat kids with family

Toddlers and very young children should sit with their parents — they need supervision and a high chair. Seat mixed ages together when there are only one or two children, or when parents prefer to keep their family as a unit. There is no single right answer; ask parents if you're unsure.

Note high chairs, booster seats, and younger children in each guest's details so the venue and caterer are prepared — and so your plan reminds you who needs what.

Make the kids' table a hit

• Activity packs: colouring, small puzzles, non-messy games.
• A kid-friendly menu served at the same time as the adults.
• For lots of little ones, consider a babysitter or entertainer.

However you handle it, mark each child clearly in your seating plan with a note, and keep families together where it matters using couple and group links. For the wider conventions, see wedding seating etiquette.